Breakups are very painful, and the worst is forgetting someone you love. Once in life, we all go through a breakup, crying.
wishing we never had any relationship, might be you think it’s impossible to forget someone you love so much, but that’s not true, ignoring someone is not easy, but also it’s not impossible
Sometimes a relationship does work that tremendous and of course we should never be in a relationship if its toxic and disturbing you mentally physicially.
Learning how to forget about someone you love takes patience and effort on your part so late time.
I have written 14 quick ways to overcome breaking up or how to forget someone you love.
1. DONT THINK ABOUT THEM
This is very important; people usually try to forget someone by remembering they need to ignore them, but in the end, they just end up thinking only about them; stop this.
If you want to forget someone, do not think about him/her. you can do so many things to make yourself very busy like
- go out
- have fav meal
- make friends
- pamper yourself
- watch movie
- start a new hobby
Make yourself very busy so that you don’t think about them.
2. DELETE ALL MEMORIES
We all have those best memories and special times captured in our phones and pictures and videos; when we accidentally see them, we melt. Delete all photos and videos you have with your particular person.
Just remove everything you have that is related to your ex, I know it’s challenging, but you have to.
do not listen or see or think those things which are related to your ex
- most spending time place
- both fav food
- your couple dress
3. BE PRODUCTIVE
The best way to forget someone is to just get productive for your work; when you feel free, you will remember all those moments. Don’t make yourself accessible; work hard
Be very productive so that you won’t get time to think about anyone.
4. START NEW ACTIVITIES
As I said, make yourself very busy, but if you don’t know what to do, you can start your hobby, it can be anything.
- start your blog and make money
- start making online money
There are a lot of hobbies you can start, even your career with some online business and a new life.
5. DONT CHANGE YOUR ROUTINE
Some people do change their routine after a breakup. They don’t sleep, get anxiety, stress, or cry, and that’s how your productive routine just changed. try to maintain your usual routine
So that breakup won’t affect you entirely, and you can overcome faster.
6. TALK TO FRIENDS AND FAMILY
Here I am talking about your close ones; it could be your best friend, family member, or parents.
Talking to someone you love makes you feel good and gain strength again.
Talk to them about how you feel and what you need, and if still, you’re getting anxious, here you go, check out this article.
7. PAMPER YOURSELF
This is the most challenging time, and you need some pampering, too; try to make every day memorable for yourself and pamper yourself as much as possible.
you can try different things to pamper like,
- go out enjoy
- make new friends
- have spa
- eat your fav food
- enjoy your day’s fullest
- get yourself a suitable gift
- take a day off from work
- watch Netflix or movie
8. MAKE NEW FRIENDS
Many people feel lonely after a breakup and that normal totally, there are many people you can talk with, and you could make more friends.
Be more extrovert, make more friends, hang out with them, share your feelings, laugh, and enjoy your life.
if you want to know how to be a extrovert person, check out here
9. ACCEPTING YOUR CURRENT LIFE
Life is tough, accepting, and not living in the past or future. You have to take your life at the end, of course, you can change it and be more productive and hardworking.
But currently, you have to understand how your life is. maybe you might be facing some issues like
- finance issue
- not having friends
- I don’t know about future goals.
- family issue
There are many problems in our life, but if we have to accept if we want to change them, clearly take your life and move on.
10. STOP EVERY CONNECTION
of course, if you want to forget that person, you need to stop every connection with them this include
- social media interaction
- phone call
- video calling
- mutual friends
Also going out with their familiar friends.
11. LISTEN TO THE MOTIVATION PODCAST
If you’re feeling down and lacking motivation for your life and future, you must listen to some motivational podcasts and songs to lift you.
Listening to sad songs makes you feel lower, try to be motivated and productive throughout this process.
12. COMPLETE YOUR PHYSICAL NEED
Don’t feel guilty if you want physical needs; it’s absolutely normal and even good for your health; complete your physical requirement without hesitation and guilt.
This is the last and most peaceful method; I know forgiving someone who made you cry is not easy, but when you forgive someone, that means now you don’t have anything inside you for that person.
And that is a good thing because you forget that person when you don’t have any reason to remember them.
So try to forgive them, relax, and always remember you deserve better; just wait for the right one.
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