How not to take life seriously is always a question when we grow up. Most of us are very serious about our life so do you. maybe you always overthink your life and get anxiety; well, if you want to control your anxiety issue, you can check my article
We spend a lot of time thinking about our life and how to deal with our problems, right?
WELL, in this article, I have shown you all the tips and tricks I use to
take life less seriously
ACCEPT YOUR LIFE
Accepting your life the way it is, is the best solution to any problem. I a not telling you to accept your life in the lowest ofcouse you can and you should always look for better and best. It’s not selfish.
But comparing your life with someone else is not good. If you compare your life with someone else, every time will make you feel sad and jealous, everyone has a different lifestyle, and you should always be proud of your lifestyle.
Accept your life currently and look for opportunities to improve your life for the best.
DONT FEEL GUILTY
Do you also feel guilty saying no to anyone? Well, then you are just like me, lol.
remember this you should never feel bad and guilty if you say no to things like
- saying no to work sometime
- saying no to workout
- saying no to not comfortable cloth
- saying no to healthy food
- saying no to a productive day
Stop feeling sad and guilty about these things, you can, and you should enjoy your time at least once a week.
I was not productive in my teenage; I was so lazy and not so focused on my life. Still 17, I never knew my goal and how to complete them.
the moment I realized that I needed to focus on my work more, I started making major changes in my lifestyle to be more and more products like
- waking up early
- writing to-do list
- making a tough routine for myself
- deleting all apps which distract my mind
- started meditation
You can check out this article if you want to know how I change my life from lazy to a product.
ACCEPT YOU AS A BEGINNER
As a full-time blogger, content creator, and YouTuber, I highly suggest not to be impatience if you are learning any new skill.
Being impatient can easily break you down, and you cannot achieve your goal; even I was a beginner when I first started my blog and had no strategy on how to work.
if you are learning any new skill, whether its
- content creating
You need to control your emotions and be very, very patient; you won’t be receiving any result for a whole month, maybe not even eight months, but when you crack your strategy, you will skyrocket it.
STOP OVER THINKING
what is overthinking
Overthinking is when you dwell or worry about the same thought repeatedly.
This is what overthinking is, and it’s not worth it. The more you overthink, the more you will be tense, affecting your work.
If you are anxious, patient and overthink, you must read this article on how to control anxiety.
Being productive helps me a lot. I am very productive in my work, and I work a lot. I could always work, and not getting tired helped me not think about life.
You can check out this article if you want to know how to be productive during work.
DONT LISTEN TO PEOPLE
Stop listening to people about how you are; you know who you are, so you don’t need to listen to any society, friends, or relatives.
Why do we feel bad and guilty about ourselves when we hear stuff from someone else about us right? Just stop listening to them so that you can live the life you want.
ENJOY YOUR ME TIME
If you are being productive and working the entire day, this is the best time you will love and enjoy cause this is my time. you could do so many things when you are alone and get a short time to enjoy your day
- watching Netflix
- listing songs
- enjoying talking to friends
- family time
- reading books
- making it reels
It would help if you always used your me time to relax, stop overthinking and feel guilty for enjoying your short me time.
DO FUN ACTIVITIES
Life does not mean working 24/7.
start loving your life and doing some small fun activities like
- playing cards
- hide and seek
- some group games
- playing outside house
- learn skill
- start swimming class
There are various activities you could do to make your life colorful.
READ MOTIVATIONAL BOOK
If you feel like you are losing motivation, do what I do. Sometimes, I lose motivation, so I listen to motivational podcasts and songs.
This keeps me motivated all the time; there was a small quote, “live like no one so that you can live like no one.
Keep this quote on your laptop wallpaper, phone up and be motivated all the time.
MAKE MORE FRIENDS
We are normal humans. We need someone to share our feelings with and emotional support too; this is how you could be even stronger, make some friends and enjoy the day with them too.
If you work at the office, make friends, discuss your dream, and work with them, you don’t feel lonely.
and I truly understand that every content creator or if you spend most of your time at home, then it’s normal to feel alone and lonely, start going outside more like
- any activity class
- any hobby you like
And increase your friend circle.
MAKE A PROPER LIFE GOAL
Are you feeling guilty and lonely not being on track, or you are feeling you are wasting your life, no, this is not a problem? You are just not making good life goals for your life.
Suppose you want to work and live your dream life. It would help if you had a good goal and strategy. if you don’t know how what you want to do in life, then stick to one thing you like doing
it can be
- being full-time entrepreneur
- content creator
It could be anything, so stick to your hobby and slowly make it a full-time job. if you don’t know how to achieve your goal with this weekly goal, then check out this article
MAKE A STRATEGY TO ACHIEVE IT
Now that you have decided what you want to do in life, you must make a proper strategy. you will face a lot of difficulties in achieving your goal without having a good plan, so I highly suggest writing down every goal you want to achieve this year
After writing yearly goals, break them into the six-month goal, the monthly goal, and the weekly goal.
A breaking goal helps a lot to complete the small and fast goal.
START YOUR HOBBY
Living life is ok, but you should not leave your hobby which makes you happy. You could always make your hobby into a full-time career option. Start living and spending more time on your hobbies.
MAKE PROPER ROUTINE
This could be why you are not happy with your life and taking life way too seriously. Start living smartly rather than being lazy and out of routine.
being in the proper routine helps you to live life correctly and smartly
You can always make your perfect routine according to your lifestyle, but I highly suggest waking up early to spend more time on yourself.
meditation is the best solution to any problem like
- controlling anger
- being patience
- living simple life
If you want to live a simple life, here is a great 30+ list to live simple.
Kindly stop comparing yourself and start growing; you know what? Nearly 80% of people are unhappy because they see other people are better than them, which is sad. Don’t compare and be jealous because people are getting better results than you.
Make self-competition; you know you are the best, and repeat this in your head. Check out my article on how to be more confident in your life.
This is how I feel amazing and beautiful from the inside, from spreading love everywhere. Girls, I know you have too much pressure working out handling family college issues, but soon you will realize that making someone else smile makes you happy from inside; that is crazy.
ignore people completely and start spreading love to everyone, do not get angry for small things; let it go
ENJOY YOUR WORK
Enjoying work is another different level of happiness. Not everyone enjoys their work, so if you don’t like your work, then change it, but if you’re not changing your work, start liking your current work. You cannot live like this. If you want to live, start loving your work and enjoy while working.
LOVE YOUR LIFE
In the end, trust me, this is your only life. So do not waste your life, living like a sad person and not enjoying your life because this time will not come back.
- accept your life
- don’t feel guilty
- work enough
- accept you are a beginner
- stop over thinking
- be productive
- don’t listen to people
- enjoy your me-time
- do fun activities
- read motivaional books
- make more friends
- make a proper life goal
- make a strategy to achieve it
- start your hobby
- make proper routine
- start meditation
- stop comparing
- spread love
- enjoy your work
- love your life
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